There is probably more to the story than meets the eye.
What good is having a gorgeous hot wife if she won’t let you touch her?
I don’t know that that was the problem, but maybe Shania’s a once a month kind of gal, and the ugly one with the big knockers is a ‘once an hour’ kind of gal.
What good is having a Ferrari if it won’t come out of the garage... better to tool around in that old Model T if need be.
Women aren’t the only ones who are cold, and who wants a great looking guy if all you do is dinners, dishes and laundry. I get tired of hearing women are the ones who are cold, its more men than women especially after thirty.
And what good is a masculine, attractive guy if all he does is look in the mirror...that works both ways. More men not meeting their obligations than women after thirty...and it isn’t because women are badlooking either.
You know what? I’d rather have a once-a-month with someone I’d been with for a long time than a once-an-hour with a newbie. There is more to intimacy, love and long-lived relationships than sex. That is an *important* part, but not the most, when you ask people who have kept their vows for decades. And sometimes if it’s only once a month, there’s a reason for it. Maybe he doesn’t deserve it. No one wants to have sex with someone wne it’s the only time he/she pays attention to you. Foreplay should go on all the time. Intimacy is important, and that could be sex or it could be looking at each other and knowing what the inside joke is and what the other is thinking without a word being said. It’s shared memories and times when money was short (or nonexistant) as well as when things were good. It’s heartaches and tears and anger and happiness and disappointment and joy and security and trust and comfort.
People take their vows too lightly today. I believe the vows state, for better and worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others. Nothing in there says ‘until someone better/more willing/larger chested comes along. Cheating says a lot more about the cheater than the cheated upon.