I don’t know about the beer thing. I drink NO alcohol at all -EVER. never have—never will.
Would I get together with a woman who drank a “little”? Depends on how “little it was” I guess. A woman who drinks a glass of wine here and there would NOT be a problem for me, but NOT once a day or more often. Once a week or less—ok, but NOT every day, and I would NOT want any alcohol at home either.
A smoker is OUT. Smoke bothers me too much anymore.
I know..I am a total square, and a bore....
So be it...