I’m sure our families would get along just fine.
(had that organ lopped out when the “monthly” got too bad)
I try not to get emotional and am raising two girls to be the same way. I’ll call them Emos and we laugh at women on tv who cry and moan.
In this world, they will be lucky to get a fine conservative man to let them stay home with kids and homeschool. They better be grateful for it.
I know women who stay at home then b!tch about everything when their hubbies come in the door. Pish. The guys don’t want to come home.
I want my hubby to do two things. One, love me like he does (bathroom, kitchen, while hanging wallpaper [yes, that was different]) and fix my computer problems. Okay, today I need him to find the ringtone I just bought, but anything he does after that is cake. I can’t complain.
Okay, I understand the bathroom and the kitchen, but he makes love to you while hanging wallpaper?
Talented!
Hahaha... I think you hit the nail on the head.. I don’t know why more women don’t teach there daughters the fundamentals of men.. and stop letting feminists fill their heads with mush.
I have no issue with women who are emotional per se, my problems are with the ones who are, and then pretend or refuse to admit that they are. Women/girls just need to recognize that they are being emotional at times, and there is nothing inately wrong with it.. just recognize it that’s all.
Men, generally, are decent... not all mind you, pleanty of them are not the kind you want to be dating your daughter, especially in the teen years... when even the “good” guys have more testosterone than their bodies can handle. However we are guys, we are relatively base creatures.. yes there are exceptions, but generally speaking we’re pretty base.
Yes, if we see an attractive woman, we are going to notice, some of us may even oogle (I try my best not to do this, but I can’t claim I’ve never ever done it) but that doesn’t mean we don’t love the one we are with. Just like when you sneak that sly glance at another guy, that you think we don’t know happens.
ALso, because we are BASE, generally speaking we mean EXACTLY what we say.. we aren’t hiding hidden messages or subtle meanings in what we are saying, we mean pretty much what we say... don’t write things into it, and in the same vein don’t try to communicate with us using subtleties and vagueries.. just be blunt, we (again generally) are just not parsing every word of everything said for hidden or underlying meanings.
Also, as a guy, YES... we can think of nothing... I know for the interconnected nature of the female brain this seems impossible, but not only can we be thinking of nothing... we can do it for hours.. we aren’t trying to avoid intimacy when you ask us what we are thinking about.... most often we are indeed thinking of nothing.
Yes, feeling appreciated for a guy is important.. if all we have to look forward to when we get home from the office is nagging.. we aren’t going to want to come home.. and that’s just one step closer to finding what we need somewhere else.
Take the time to keep up your appearance... I know I know... not fair, but like it or not, letting oneself go is a bad bad trap. Men are visual creatures, we are... And letting oneself go, will have an impact, even on the nicest most loving guy on the planet over time. Now I’m not talking medical issue stuff, where something cannot be healped.. but if you let yourself go consciously far enough, even the guy who truly does love you will not feel appreciated.
Give your guy a good reason to come home, and no you aren’t guaranteed that he’ll never stray... sadly.. but odds are pretty damned good you’ll have a long and happy life together.