I’ve been married twice. The first ended in divorce after 15 years. The second died from cancer after only a year and a half.
After over two years I’m getting married again in June to my editor. I’ve never been happier. I understand your viewpoint though. Life’s short, be happy mei mei. (chinese for little sister)
For those who have happy marriages, it’s a joy to behold. Honestly, the more reason not to have horror of a marriage to taint the scope of thsoe that are good.
Blessings to you and your new spouse.