[bannie]

I've been married “more’n once,” and I have come to believe that you have to be young to be willing to mold to fit each other. I may be moldy; but I'm no longer malleable.

When I think of all of the work relationships take, I wonder why I ever tried so hard. (hormones...I really don't wonder!)

[McLynnan]

I'm no longer malleable.

Oh me too. I don't want to be malleable, therein lies the problem. The desire to continually work to accommodate and please somebody else is no longer there.