Ah, you described me. I was married a long, long time. Single for five years now and wallow in the solitude. I guard it and protect it. I love it, don’t want to change it and am happy. Don’t get me wrong, I have family and friends in my life but my home is my solitary haven and I don’t want to share it right now. Maybe someday.......
Exactly! From about 10 to 4ish today, I had a house full of people. Great fun! Now I’m under my fake fur comforter, remote in one hand and laptop in the other.
Life is good.
We are hobbits. We love our holes in the tree, our comfy chairs, our books and our quiet.