I once went out on a "date" with a guy I grew up with... (from diapers to high school) At the end of the evening...he kissed me. Afterward, we just looked at each other and went "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!" hahaha. I have had guy friends I find extremely attractive.......just not in a sexual sort of way....so I know where you're coming from.
LOL - Harry, too. :)