Leaving aside the financial squeeze fairy take, when, exactly, did Lincoln or any other Northern leader threaten the South with the abolition of it's slavery?
The Constitution is not a suicide pact and if you are indeed 'wideawake', then you need to wrap your mind around that.
It's not a license to steal, either.
Well, Garrison, Brown and a few other wild-eyed fanatics did, but they never had true political power or any chance of getting it.
Garrison called Lincoln "the slave-hound from Illinois," publicly burned the Constitution and called for free states to secede from a Union dominated by slaveholders. As with the good Rev. Wright today, these are not actions that help one win elections.