“As far as whether she “raped” this lad, I can only go by my own memories and experiences while I was a 14 year old dude in high school, and there is no way in Hades that a chick that cute could have ever raped me. And like others have said, I would have definitely been bragging about it to my buddies in the locker room. The male psyche is not that fragile.”
Dude, as a 14 year old you cannot legally consent to sex. Would it be ok if the genders were reversed?
“The male psyche is not that fragile.”
Guys like to think that but the reality is far different.
This is exactly the point that most of us here are trying to make is the double standard that exists today and the markedly anti-male philosophy that pervades these cases and society as a whole, look at divorce and custody issues. Some of us use sarcasm to get that point across, and some seem to get their panties in a wad over those sarcastic comments. Everybody seems to know which role what gender plays out in that scenario.