I always figure that a person chooses the way s/he will react to any given situation. If you want to be upset at something, you will be.
I used to get upset over things when I was younger, but I decided that I was not going to stress over something I couldn’t change, no matter how terrible it was.
So now, people think I have no feelings, or they think I’m “covering up.” Nope. I just don’t choose to react.
And if I liked jalapenos, I’d probably feel good after eating them in a burger. But I’d rather have chocolate!
Whoa!