The days when she’s good are probably the ones you need to listen very carefully for that other shoe to drop.
(My own experience, here...)
Something like that.
Though I do have ot say that she isn’t as she was six years ago.
But she still has some issues to work out.
(She goes to church today, and snarks about how I don’t go anymore. Well, the deal was I go to church, she works on her issues. Not I go to church and she keeps chugging along in the same rut.)