” Perhaps you’re just one of those who think that money makes everything alright.”
no need to get snotty.
I am someone who believes in perspective.
If the florist did not deliver the proper service - she is entitled to a refund.
If she is the type, like you say, who is “all about details” and allows off color flowers to cause her “trauma”, and to allow that to ruin her wedding - then her problems obviously extend far beyond a poor florist.
Sometime real “trauma” happens to people...fires, earthquakes, death, injuries.... I don’t include off color flowers in that category.
That is you. Apparently, it is difficult for you to allow anyone else an opinion that is not based on your standards.