I usually do the honey-do projects. I sometimes suspect he does this on purpose; so I will have to fix it.
Then I remember the time he was excited buying a kitchen faucet at a discount from a friend’s store. It was really pretty and we did need it. However, after 2 hours of fighting with it and me telling him to call a plumber and his split finger; he did. Took the plumber 15 minutes.
See what I mean?
My ex-husband being the middle of 3 boys told me that’s how his two brothers got out of work demanded of the parents, and he ended up doing work. The two brothers would deliberately do a bad job on anything their parents assigned them. My ex would do a good job, and therefore got the work assigned to him.