Well Darling Paula, while you were busy away taking care of your 'needs' he was spending both of your monies (since oh yeah, you are married!) to take care of his. Maybe if you would have paid more attention to your marriage and what was going on at home you could have had more control. But baby it sounds like you chose what was truly important to you. Now live with the consequences. You play you pay. He owes you nothing.
It will be interesting to find out if the Zahn suit is a ploy to get into Cohen’s net worth past the point of the pre-nup or to find out if the money she gave him was squandered and Cohen is not as rich as he maintains.