I know exactly what you mean. Thank God I work at home so much so I can take care of them. We have one outdoor one (he adopted us from the renters' house across the street, it was like 'Cops' over there 24-7), and he sprays...we neutered him, give him his shots, food and water, love, etc.
Yesterday I told the Petsmart man I am like the crazy cat lady who doesn't want to leave her house except to buy cat food... fotflol. Actually, I mainly feed them a good brand of fit for human consumption food (non-Petsmart), but still have to pick up other things like toys and treats...
Yeah. I’m on disability (Mixed Connective Tissue Disease) and mom takes care of me (she’s retired) and so we’re home with the group all the time just about. We do PetSmart too but we feed them a mix of canned food for breakfast and dinner and dry food and water at will (and well, yes, table scraps. They LOVE chicken livers LOL) ... and of course, yes, the treats and the toys! Feather toys! They go manic.