I don’t envy you with the official stuff. Dealing with accountants is bad enough, but dealing with lawyers is downright painful, in the pocketbook of course. I’ll bet that there’s a mountain of legal stuff that need taking care of when one loses a spouse. But just deal with what you can get done one day at a time and it’ll eventually all get done. It’s good that you’re already diving into it though. The sooner you get it all taken care of the sooner you can get get back to a more normal life.