Yes, she does have a horse, Boomer. Now in fairness to Boomer, she’s had him since he was a baby and now he’s five, and he just still doesn’t know anything (and neither does she) She goes out and flails around him, and watching him calmly tolerating her I honestly think the horse is a gem. He just needs trained. All she’s done is pet him for five years.
What we have here is a gal who has had a horse five years, been on the forum asking all kinds of questions for one, and still doesn’t know any more about it than when she started, and has very few resources to get help. No lessons, parents won’t pay for training.
I’m not trying to be harsh or catty, but it makes my brain short circut knowing that someone would sell her a horse knowing that she knows so little, with zero opportunity to improve. I’d be more than concerned if my horse went into that kind of situation. I say this out of concern for the welfare of the horse, not as an opportunity to ridicule the person.