They don’t even need to tell anyone. Just do it......who would know?
I was with the mother and father of a 15 year old girl who had been in an automobile accident in 1994. The girls head had recieved a very heavy blow and doctors could not stop the swelling. Eventually a doctor came in and said it was time to talk about organ donation. To say the least this put an added burden on the parents, who wants to think of their child being parted out? It might be better to just do it. It will always be a tough call. On a lighter note In 1976 I was staioned in CA with a young guy who filled in the organ donation form on the back of his drivers license with “just my penis” thinking he was cool. My wife told him he wasn’t very generous.