I get the exact opposite line of questioning. “You’re having another one? Don’t you know what causes that? Are you going to have your tubes tied this time so you don’t have to have any more?”
I’m only working on my 4th child. Can’t imagine what Tax-chick has had to put up with!! :o)
Anyway, questions about children from either side is just so rude and way too personal!
My kids are so loud that I can't hear what anyone says, anyway.