So to speak.
Mine, too. But I would like to have sex inside my 24 year marriage. (plus the loss of about 35-40 pounds of her would be a big help.)
Older friend once told me: “I would not take one million dollars for my wife. On the other hand, I would not give $10,000 for five more just like her.” My wife probably feels the same, so no need to flame, get enough flame at home.