If Iranian civilians know that we’ll still bomb priority targets even if it means collateral damage they may have more incentive to initiate their own rebellion. So I agree with that. I just don’t think we should go in and flatten neighborhoods at random (or nuke them). So maybe I misunderstood your original point.
No nukes. that’s the whole idea, isn’t it? My point is to erase their infrastructure. But moreso, where exactly do you think they hid their nuke sites? In the middle of the desert with one road terminating at a guard shack or under a school or, more likely, a hospital to provie cover for the radioactivity. Those sites need to become giant holes in the ground, preferrably with minimal civilian death, but in no way do I want our guys (and I have family serving) going door to door again. No way. We win it conclusively and quickly. We kille enough of them that they don’t ever decide to mess with us again, like Japan. Then we send in the Mormons and the Jehova’s Witnesses to monitor the situation.