To all reasonably spritual persons under the age of 23-A note about "playing the field".
The "field" is never larger than when you are in high school/college. Consider how many individuals you have ever culled from that field as being in some way "special".?
Let's take sex out of it. How many 'best friends' does a person have? 'Best friend' is a catagory that goes unfilled if a candidate does not come along to fill it. People will actually say "I hang around with this one or that one but I wouldn't call them my best friend"
Those few people of the opposite sex who we, for some reason, pick out of the crowd when we have passed literally on thousands of others are probably best frinds with interesting plumbing.
"The Field", from age 23 on begins narrowing. Your choices are thus narrowed.
(Although two persons who are in a relationship from their teen years to late twenties who haven't long since married are probably hiding from something in it.)
I married the second girl I kissed. After 20 some years of marriage I still wish I had skipped the first one. There is no third.