'Red State" as in red states during a USA Presidential election. They are a conservative blog and have been around for a while now.
Do you do a lot of computer programming? You seem to take everything so literally. It's not an insult. That's what I did and I used to find myself being too literal at times.
Relax, this silly hubbub is turning into a Rockefeller liberal Republicans-style rumpus that tried to tag Goldwater and us (his supporters) as Klan supporters -- during the Trent Lott free-for-all there were calls to kick "racist" paleo-cons out of the Party. What kind of party is this? Decades later it's still dangerous to have independent thought among Republicans, I see.
You (not you personally) don't have to destroy Ms Coulter to express disagreement. You don't have to Keep on truckling to the left.