[facedown]

"My husband, while very charming in many ways, has an annoying tendency of doing exactly the opposite of what I would like him to do in many situations," Chartrand said in a release.

Maybe you're just a jerk, Ms. Chartrand, and hubby has found a passive-aggressive way to get your goat.

[RKV]

"because they wish to avoid doing what other people want pressure them" to do." There, fixed. Cooperation needs to be mutual, otherwise, one of the parties will decide not accommodate the other.

[ladyjane]

Maybe you're just a jerk, Ms. Chartrand, and hubby has found a passive-aggressive way to get your goat.

Then they both lose.

Why would anyone want to do something to hurt their spouse? It doesn't make sense.