i guess the emphasis needs to be on MUTUAL agreement on abstinence... (i wrote more, and deleted it and started over 3 times...LOL )
Mutual. But of COURSE!
That's why the Bible says we must be 'Equally yoked.'
And Amos 3:3 says:
Can two people walk together
without agreeing on the direction?
If somebody is after the wrong thing in the wrong order, they're the WRONG PERSON for you, RUN.