[Tahoe3002]

Not disputing you...just another point of view.

Women, 87.5%, use sex to get what they want: children, new clothes, car, security, house, etc. Once they have these wants satisfied, they experience a sudden loss of interest in sex. Always an excuse or blame the man for not meeting her emotional needs.

I have been married over 23 years. I only remain so because being alone, for me, is worse than no sex (and I am NOT splitting my 401K). Now if I could just find a woman in the remaining 12.5%. These women love sex, with their man, and do not use it as a "reward" but something to be shared between the two.

[normy]

There are 2 tactics I like to use sometimes. Number 1 is forget about sex for as long as your wife doesn't mention it, no cuddling no sexual advances. Its wild to see the tension mount on the wife's side. I guess she's so used to advances she gets real worried about you.

Number 2: demand it and check out her response. Its fun and puts things in perspective.

[Sherman Logan]

blame the man for not meeting her emotional needs.

Chicken - egg.