Looks like TATUM was not the only O'Neal child to get smacked or abused by the father. You know Ryan, the sins of the father are passed down. Your kids may be more like you than you realize.Which may also account for your rage.
"Your kids may be more like you than you realize.'
Ryan seems to have forgotten who decides what old folks home he will be put into.
I just read that passage this morning and I was impressed with the rest of that verse: sins of the father are passed down to those who hate him (God). But not necessarily down to those who love God. In fact, blessings are passed down through thousands (of years? generations?). I hadn't really grasped that before. If Ryan knew Christ, his heritage would improve greatly. Not saying our kids can't get into trouble but...
the "kid" is 42. He has always been a problem and in trouble with the law. I don't know why you would just go and blame Ryan without knowing the whole story.