"We told her about how the show works and how you'll be a little isolated. It was just too much for her. "
Wait a minute! She didn't know what the show is about? Are they just picking people up off the streets? Instead of recruiting people they need to go back to picking people who make an effort to get on the show. People who really want to do it. That's when it was the best.
I couldn't agree more! However, you'll never get them to agree to that.