[nmh]

"A girl subjected to the same captivity is tainted goods. For a boy, the stain is deeper."

I disagree. Females are more emotionally wired - and monogamous oriented. Males are not really monogamous oriented. What is typically shameful for males, is when they are straight and sick pervert, gay guy, gets a hold of them - that's where there is an emotional and psychological wound - and where there is great parallel to females being raped by either sex.

[RobbyS]

I should have used the word branded. How will he fit in a locker room full of guys?

I think we are making the same point. When you get a boy at age 11, he probably hasn't been "oriented" yet. sexuality is something that has to be learned, and if he has a teacher like this guy, he is badly taught. Can this be remedied?