[dmz]

I'm trying to figure out your point when you say " A girl subjected to the same captivity is tainted goods. For a boy, the stain is deeper."

[RobbyS]

Each has been shamed and people don't forget that. But a girl of that age who has been a "love slave" is not looked upon the way that a boy who has been. The latter has been more humiliated, unmanned so to speak.