[Rodney King]

so it's completely value neutral so long as she is decent looking?

When did I say it was value neutral? Sometimes it is a good thing.

[xsmommy]

no i am just assuming since you indicated the only variable is her looks, if it doesn't matter if she is married or if the kid was perhaps grounded in a moral teaching at home that might, just MIGHT, cause him to feel that he was doing something wrong by having sex with an adult married woman. or is sex with a decent looking woman just always all good?

i don't want you to think that i come to these thread to harangue you in any way. i enjoy these discussions. i only ragged on Cholerajoe's inane remark because he is a friend of mine, we have met, and he has met my family. and i felt i needed to call him on the inanity : )