I'm only going to say this one more time: do not ping me again and do not talk about me again.
Get off it. You are part of a public thread anybody and anyone can send a message to you on the thread any time they want.
If you are really interested in getting the facts like you say you are then you will continue to participate and try to make something good happen out of this tragedy.
In either case I wish you the best this holiday season.