[bvw]

Hmmm, because of my eariler wilder life I can say with the confidence of real-world experince to your "there always is more there", that: "No, there isn't. Lust and back-stabbing infidelity are very simple things. Just that."

[HitmanLV]

While I agree that lust and back-stabbing infidelity are simple things, that's not to say that there isn't more there. They aren't mutually exclusive. Nor do I advocate that behavior.

It's just that more often than not, things are not as straightforward as an cheated-upon spouse describes.