I ended up with that soymilk eggnog. It's not as thick and creamy as regular, but it will do. Half the fat, half the carbs, and thecat likes it.
Hmmm....cornstarch...
Soymilk eggnog--Okie-dokie!! If'n you and thecat like it, then that's all that matters. OB drinks eggnog, he'll go through a couple of cartons this holiday season, 'cause he's got it all to himself. LSA