Ok I just watched BOTH commercials to which this thread refers.
You are looking WAYYYYYYYYYYY to much into this.
It's VERY clear to me that the women are both wondering if their HUSBAND got them the Lexus.
Let's get a grip people.
Clearly, this is brilliant marketing on the part of Lexus.
Some people will never see how the two guys in the ad are gay. They will see them simply as neighbors, thus, no harm done to that customer base.
But others, especiallu those in the gay community, will find the commercial appealig to their lifestyle. They will unoubtedly see the men as gay.
Many people don't even catch the fact they came out of two separate houses. But, for people who would "boycott" Lexus for gay inuendo... that is the company's defense.
Win-win situation for Lexus because either scenario works.
Besides...noone can deny the spending power of the gay community.