Just because you're a married man doesn't mean you're dead. Would you rather your husband went to a strip club and came home all excited, or just had a nice, quiet affair?
"Just because you're a married man doesn't mean you're dead. Would you rather your husband went to a strip club and came home all excited, or just had a nice, quiet affair?"
This is a false dichotomy. There is no either/or choice here.
I can oppose his going to strip clubs AND oppose his having an affair...and he expects the same of me.
Married men who don't go to strip clubs are not "dead" - they're just more mature than other guys.