They even use the same words - "for the children."
The children weren't complaining apparently. The flower girl and ring bearer were on the dance floor. Uncle Mel and Aunt Shirley didn't care if their nephew smoked at his wedding.
Nobody cared and nobody complained. Except the smoke police and the minimum wage earners in the kitchen who found themselves empowered by the almighty State to enforce Sharia law.
Cue up REM "It's the End of the World (As we know it)