I believe that which you deem as ugly, I saw as Nancy Grace's frustration.
Here was NG trying to assist Melinda in finding her child. A mother desperate to locate a child would be beating herself up trying to remember where she was in the hours before Trenton "went missing."
This "mother"...this wonderful mother threw away toys, clothing, dishes which belonged to Trenton within hours of his disappearance. She threw away his sonogram. It's all too similar to Scott Peterson who had his wife's SUV up for sale knowing she wasn't ever coming home.
This was Melinda's bed, and she didn't want to sleep in it.
You may be right..... but read post # 7 for some background on her.
I heard her on the radio with Glenn Beck last week and she really seemed like a really nice, down to earth, and funny southern girl. It was amazing.
I am not sure what to think of her. I'll wait and see.