"No woman should feel guilty or inadequate because some birth plan didn't work for them".
I couldn't agree more: but there are more than a few guys out there who 'went along' with the idea of a birth plan, but then failed to prepare for what actually occurred. It is solely to them, and men like them, these words are directed.
(lol, btw, my hands are still kinda of sore! Of course, they are not as sore as some parts of Mrs. Gb....but we don't pay much attention to all that, given the joy we are enjoying w/ little miss gb).
All I ask is that you stop writing these childbirth without drugs is wonderful articles and have MRS. Gobucks put her words on paper.
Even better, let her do it when you aren't around and post it without you reading it first.
I'm willing to bet my Grannies chamber pot that while she goes along with it, some things aren't as blissful as you make out.