It was about 3 months after we were married that I had that dream and I spent a full day upset and not sure if I should tell him or just suffer for 8 or 9 years. By the end of the day I remembered that he asked me long ago to tell him no matter what I saw, good or bad, so I told him and he insisted that in this case it was "just a dream" but I also know that it is not as horrific as being told you have 6 months from cancer or something.
That is a very long time for us to have lots of fun together and to enjoy life with my children and grandchild(ren).
That's pretty distressing. It took me a long time to assure myself that I couldn't have done anything with in the case of the neighbor. There was a lot of guilt.
I made one other judgement call on telling someone a dream once. A friend of a friend had been murdered and needless to say, it shook us all. A few weeks after the murder, my grandmother came to me in a dream and basically let me know that the murdered girl hadn't accepted that she was dead yet. Showed me people and objects associated with her that I couldn't verify. I decided to call my friend and tell her so she could verify the things in the dream - however it also required me to tell her that her friend hadn't "moved on" yet.
Thankfully I went to the psychic in Sedona about a year later. She actually touched on Danielle a bit. Again, bringing up things I couldn't verify. (I didn't know her). However, one of the first things she said was - "she knows now and is happy". My friend once again verified everything. I'm not sure why Danielle decided to get messages through me, as I never met her.
Wow.. what a foretelling of the time frame for you & hubby.. and how great you will share "whatever" as married soulmates TOGHETHER facing the trials ahead.
Most of us don't make the most of time with special people.. you will I KNOW!