She will be dead way before he reaches retirement age, just sad.
Actually, when she dies, he will have reached retirement age.
She will be dead way before he reaches retirement age, just sad.
What makes you think he won't go first? A friend of mine had a mother who was 45 and her father was 77. It was always assumed that he would go first, but she ended up getting cancer and dying. Life has no guarantees. Life is too short to fret about age. Goodness even if she only has a few years left, can't she be happy. Plus they already have had 22 years. Another thing I don't understand from your post is why is it sad? Everyone is going to lose a spouse at some time or another (well at least 50 percent of all married people will go through it. The other 50 percent will be the deceased.)