IMHO, women vastly overrate the appeal of large breasts. I've been with women who are naturally well endowed (as that crude euphemism has it) and find that two [sic] much of a good thing gets in the way during intimacy.
Some wag said of Jane Mansfield that her breasts were so large that they constituted a deformity and I tend to agree. I remember back in my Katlick high school one morning before class one guy was reading aloud an advert for a local burlesque show (they actually still had them, in the day) featuring a performer who qualifications were listed as "48-24-36". "What does she do?" one guy asked. "With a little help, sit up." was the instant retort.
On a personal note, I'll add a story out of school. Some twenty-five plus years ago, the first time I ever saw my current and only wife au natureal her first words were an apology for the size of her breasts. While they were smaller than average, I knew that a priori and was in no way disappointed. They were (and remain) well shaped and womanly. The entire package was (and remains) altogether very appealing.
My advice to anyone seeking a wife is to find someone you'd like even if she were your sister, and who genuinely likes you.
Your story---and it was touching, sir---reminded me of hearing a young man explain once why he had decided to remain a virgin until marriage.
He said he was quite sure that sex wasn't all there was to marriage, but that once participated in, he was quite sure it would become all he thought about for a good long while. He said were he having sex with his girlfriend, he would have no way of knowing if he really liked her, and if he would like her for the long-term, because his view would be so obscured by sex. So he'd decided to wait.
Which is rather like your wise words that those looking for a good wife should find someone they would like "even if she were your sister." IOW, someone you just like, regardless of all the romance and passion that also swirls around.
Your story---and it was touching, sir---reminded me of hearing a young man explain once why he had decided to remain a virgin until marriage.
He said he was quite sure that sex wasn't all there was to marriage, but that once participated in, he was quite sure it would become all he thought about for a good long while. He said were he having sex with his girlfriend, he would have no way of knowing if he really liked her, and if he would like her for the long-term, because his view would be so obscured by sex. So he'd decided to wait.
Which is rather like your wise words that those looking for a good wife should find someone they would like "even if she were your sister." IOW, someone you just like, regardless of all the romance and passion that also swirls around.