I once read that at least 60% Christian men (even even evangelical men) view pornagraphy on a regular basis. It's just incredibly insidious, and I don't think women have any idea the struggles men have with this.
Heck, I still have to work to have a conversation with a woman while looking into her EYES the whole time. You have nature, AND original sin working against you 24/7 .
SNORT!
When I was in a ballet company (and flat as a flitter, come to think of it) there was a dance Dad that was so bad at talking to our chests that we would all cross our arms in unison when he walked into the room.
Damn, we hated that guy!