Agreed. And nothing like abstinence to fan the flames of lust. :-)
Without grace, and without discipline, lust will indeed be enflamed.
From St. Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:
Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Not . one . mention . of . procreation.