"I doubt you will find any man on this board (at least one who is honest with himself) who wouldn't have jumped at the opportunity when he was 17"
You'd be wrong. I was sexually active at 17, and one time I was approached by a married woman in her late 20's. She was very attractive. I was shocked by that, and turned her down flat. That doesn't mean that I wasn't having lots of fun with the girls in my high school. I just wasn't attracted to women of her age.
Such stuff happens a lot more frequently that you'd think. A lot of 17 year old kids would say no to a late 20's woman. Heck, my mom was only 37 when I was 17.
I like taking things completely out of context. Cheers