She sounds a lot like Holly from my college 3 years ago.
That girl RUINED my ENTIRE college experience. Just like you, I "thought we were getting along, too".
Then the threatening email, and the security guard's visit the next day.
I must say, that was a very low point in my life. Since then, I have found it VERY difficult to say much to a woman I am not sure of.
As far as I know, however a person CANNOT get someone for a "bad remark" if they don't make any!! SO...just say NOTHING to her, that is not necessary for work!!
LEARN from my heartache, and don't allow yourself to be crushed as I was!!
Man, that is so sad RCA.. and for you too Phil. Nothing like walking on pins & needles at a fairly new job.
Hopefully management/owners will see how flaky she is & terminate her. People who stir up the workplace are very dangerous to have in your company