Wagglebee, some of the folks I have spoken to that have had abortions feel the same way. There is forgiveness from God if they ask for it. It is just so hard to forgive oneself for what they have done. According to Silent No More, that is one of the most difficult stuggles of their lives.
I'm not sure if you saw this thread:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1769821/posts