I was in NYC for the first time in Aug. 2002. I got lost as well (and at night, too). I just smiled and made eye contact with everyone. Thought that might help. :) But.... it all worked out OK. Maybe they thought *I* was crazy!
You were most likely not batshiat drunk and walking along a deserted stretch of Manhattan at 4am.
"I just smiled and made eye contact with everyone. Thought that might help. :) "
Wow. Have things changed? I grew up in NYC and I learned early to never make eye contact and keep a blank expression.
Caused me some problems in my transition to the South since everyone here says, "Hi," and smiles at everyone.
Not a good idea at all.
"I got lost as well (and at night, too). I just smiled and made eye contact with everyone. "
Next time try flashing large sums of cash. It's a sure way to attract some "helpful" folk.