95 lbs is probably oversized for a male golden. People DO breed very large ones, but that is not the standard. I don't think you can blame THAT one on show people! My girls run about 50 - 60 lbs. I haven't had a boy in so long, I forget what they weighed at adulthood, but I would guess in the 70 to 80 lb range.
FWIW when I walk my goldens around town, I frequently get stopped by people asking me why they are so small. They are not small, they are within standard. But most of the goldens they have had or seen are larger. I don't get why anyone would want a larger golden, however, people seem to like them.
susie
He's a young adolescent, still at the all elbows and @$$ stage - and watching him and Shelley play is hysterical! He's probably faster in a straightaway sprint, and he can muscle her around . . . but he can't catch her because she has figured out that a quick change of direction means that he spends 20 feet or so with pinwheeling legs trying to turn! When she leaps over his back and runs off in the opposite direction, he gets this look on his face like "How did she DO that?" Then she runs back and yells, "TAG! You're it!" When they're both exhausted they flop down and nuzzle each other -- it's totally cute.