Posted on 07/08/2006 5:09:43 AM PDT by Mr. Brightside
Well, there's your first clue.
"dumped Callahan after finding evidence on his computer that he had been trolling for women on the Internet and after learning he was married"
lol internet.
Hmmmm... That certainly didn't stop my now ex-wife from running off with another man and agreeing to marry him while she was married to me.
It's legal system, NOT a justice system.
One only gets as much justice as one can afford.
Didn't I read once of a woman forcing the return of a ring given by her husband to another woman, on the theory that he had given commonly held property away to another, without the wife's permission? Maybe the wife could sue to force the return of the ring.
Never get between a woman and your money.
If the answer to either question is "no",then I can't see him having done anything so wrong as to entitle her to $40K.
Yah,cruising the web for babes is a good reason for her to dump him.And not having told her of his marriage also gives her good reason to be ticked off.
But not to the tune of $40K.
One could understand such a thing if divorce proceedings hadn't been initiated...that is,if the recipient was his secret girlfriend...but that doesn't seem to be the case here.
Do you mean that the case described in the original post was a "secret girlfriend" situation? If you do,I guess that in the very strictest sense of that term,his wife *was* his secret girlfriend because her existence hadn't been revealed to the new "fiance".
But were he and his wife living together at the time? Were they sleeping together? Divorce proceedings *had* been initiated..and were almost complete.
Unless there's something that I'm missing here..or that hasn't been disclosed in the article...I'm not sure that she has the *moral* right to keep the ring.
From an old Joan Rivers stand-up routine:
"If you break an engagement and don't want to give the ring back, swallow it. No man will look through sh!* for a diamond."
(Pause for the REAL punchline....)
"Barbara Bush told me that, and she's absolutely right."
They had met on the InternetWell, there's your first clue.
The Eleventh Commandment!
She shouldn't have been too shocked, seeing as that's how she met him.
Good for her.
Since he was married, the ring was not an "engagement ring", but a gift.
Legally, you can keep gifts.
I am unsure of the legal status for engagement rings...traditionally if you break an engagement you send it back. If he breaks it, you can keep it...
Since essentially he "broke" the engagement because he had no intention of marrying her, she should keep the ring.
Serves the SOB right.
$40,000. for a 3.4 caret diamond? Wow, am I out of the loop!
Presenting an engagement ring is based on a promise to marry. If the date of marriage was after a divorce, which it must be, and the divorce is final except for 90 day wait, then the divorce has to be presumed certain and the promise to marry is still valid.
Most likely, this guy will win on appeal, if he can afford the lawyer's fees.
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